Wednesday, August 7, 2013

Pictures at Parties

Ok I discussed this in group chat after it happened and we all got a good laugh out of this with some reply's of  "What does she expect?", "I don't remove any pictures." and "Post them everywhere". Also no names have been mentioned and won't be.
She is not in this picture.
I received an IM from a female that was at this last Saturdays Beach party (Aug 3rd), requesting I remove 2 picture of her having sex and one of her nude. This is the first time in 1 1/2 years of hosting parties that anyone has made this request. I asked her to specify which pictures and I removed the three. I then told her that since she wants no nude pictures taken she should not get nude at these parties and she informed me "I can not honor that request." So I then informed her that I would then need to ban her if she could not follow this rule.

Keep in mind I am not the only one that can take pictures (we all have cameras on our viewers), most of us have a flickr page and/or a blog. So everyone at parties should expect that at anytime a picture can be taken of them!! Don't do anything you don't want a picture take of at a party, do it someplace private! I'm sure the guy she had sex with took a few pictures!

She then said she would inform her friends that I was going to ban her as some sort of threat. I hate threats!! If they want to follow her that is their choice, but I'm not going to make a "Do not photograph list" nor check everyone to make sure none of the other party guest didn't take a picture of her especially since I'm not telling her name. If I did give out her name and say "ok everyone no pictures of her." it would probably cause even more picture of her to be take. It's by far easier for me just to ban her (for her own protection) and not deal with it.

She also said I needed a big sign on the beach listing the rules, Come on REALLY? It's a porn star party on an adult sim at a club called Porn*Stars, we make porn and take picture of each other having sex!!  I do warn people pictures are being taken. I do 2 post each week Party Announcement, here is one posted prior to the party she attended: * SL Porn* Beach Party/Orgy . It clearly says: As always, nudity and naughtiness is encouraged! Every piece of furniture on the beach has a sex menu, so don't be shy this is a porn star party on an adult sim, the naughtier the better! ** Warning pictures will be taken. When I wrote that warning I did it as a joke thinking everyone knew pictures would be taken, but it's there anyway. I also write this in the picture notices: If you were at this weekends beach party, you might be in these pictures. If you couldn't make it you should see what you missed!!. Most people come to the parties to be "seen" in pictures, but apparently not her.

I am going to make this very clear one last time! We all have cameras, do not do anything at parties you do not want pictures taken of!!! If her friends want to boycott the party because she can't keep her clothes, that  unfortunately is their choice and her choice to spoil their fun. I will ban/eject her if she gets naked for her own protection and to insure no one takes nude pictures of her!!

Have  fantastic day and fun at the next party!!!

1 comment:

  1. Sorry, if someone doesn't want a picture taken of what they are doing at a Pornstar Party, then don't do things in public on an Adult sim.

    With each notice sent, we do say that pics are being taken. Hell, there are other photographers around and some might even film it.

    I understand she wants some sort of privacy, but saying, "I can't honor the request to stay clothed" is for me also a response with, "I can't honor to move away my camera!!"

    Have a problem being photographed, stay dressed or don't come at all to a Pornstar Party were nudity is encouraged, not enforced!!!

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